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As we saw in Part 1, the disconnect is real.
The Body of Christ and life affirming ministry haven’t been connected as God wants them to be for a long, long time. Many center directors at the Missouri conference told me of their hearts’ desire to see the Body of Christ more closely connected to life-affirming ministry. Let’s sum up:
FEATURES OF THIS DISCONNECT
Before transitioning from the “why” to “how” we can reconnect, let’s look at three features of the disconnect that you may have noticed and/or experienced.
Division
Acts 19:32 says, “some were shouting one thing and some another, for the assembly was in confusion and the majority did not know for what reason they had come together.”
In May of 2019, Christianity Today reported, “Abortion remains a contentious issue among U.S. Christians.”1 Other research shows:
Life-affirming ministry is regarded by many as a “para-church ministry,” a ministry that is not the church but that comes alongside the church. Some go so far as to say that para-church ministries specialize in things that churches may not be able to specialize in. Let that sink in.
Disinterest
In a stunningly humble statement, David Platt, current president of the International Mission Board, and the author of the New York Times best seller Radical: Taking Back Your Faith From the American Dream, recently said this about the state of the church and abortion:
“On the subject of abortion, on a whole, the Church is shamefully silent and appallingly passive. I say that because that what I was just a few years ago. For the majority of my life as a Christian and my ministry as a pastor, I looked at abortion as political, therefore I didn’t need to deal with it. For most Christians, we know it’s out there, we hear about it, but we are not saying, ‘Okay, what do I need to do about that?’ We need to ask that question. This is not a political issue, a women’s issue or a children’s issue, this is a God issue! We need to act on this issue! Moral or political neutrality is not an option for those who truly believe the Bible.” (watch video)
Deception
“My people have become lost sheep; their shepherds have led them astray.” Jeremiah 50:6
Jes Kast, pastor of Faith United Church of Christ in State College, Pennsylvania, says you have “reproductive rights” and “bodily autonomy.” Pastor Kast openly proclaims, “I believe in access to safe and legal abortions.”3
CONNECT
Now let’s consider “how” to connect the Body of Christ to life-affirming ministry.
While there are many ways that might be done, right now I am going to share one way that also happens to be the best way, the way God wants them to be connected.
Reviving biblical manhood, husbandry, and fatherhood is the best way to connect the Body of Christ and life affirming ministry.
A quick look inside virtually any pregnancy resource center immediately reveals a very beautiful feature. Women. Throughout its sixty-year history in the United States, pregnancy resource centers have largely been ministries to women operated by women. As a result, women have been God’s primary instruments in making life-affirming ministry so strong, so poised, and so cohesive. Never in all of history has the world witnessed champions for life on this grand scale. And to all of you, I am deeply and humbly grateful.
Men are the missing piece. Not only are men the missing piece, but they are by far, the biggest problem. The categoric root causes of threats to pre-born life are men.
Therefore: reviving Biblical manhood, husbandry, and fatherhood is:
Let me offer three reasons that a revival of biblical manhood, husbandry, and fatherhood is the best way to connect the Body of Christ and life-affirming ministry and is the way God wants them to be connected:
1. Reviving Biblical manhood, husbandry, and fatherhood is what God wants.
“Behold, I am going to send you Elijah the prophet before the coming of the great and terrible day of the Lord. He will turn the hearts of the fathers back to their children and the hearts of the children to their fathers, so that I will not come and strike the land with complete destruction.” (Malachi 4:5-6)
2. Reviving biblical manhood, husbandry, and fatherhood is the fastest, most comprehensive way to prevent pre-born lives from being vulnerable to abortion. Attitudes of fathers toward their pre-born children is the leading root cause of abortion. Is it reasonable to expect that threats to pre-born lives can be eliminated without reviving biblical manhood, husbandry, and fatherhood?
3. The Body of Christ has been uniquely equipped by God to revive Biblical manhood, husbandry, and fatherhood. (Matthew 28:19-20)
CONNECTOR
Connecting the Body for life
One proven connector between the Body of Christ and life-affirming ministry is Birth of a Family. It reaches the leading root cause of threats to pre-born lives. It is…
Why it Works
Birth of a Family creates sustained relational discipleship involving the clients of life-affirming ministries and equipped people of the Body of Christ. Through this innovational connector, pregnancy resource center clients experience role-modeling, mentoring, and support from the Body of Christ—often for the first time in their lives.
Birth of a Family is a relational discipleship approach that doesn’t just connect the Body of Christ with life-affirming ministry, but it engages the Body of Christ in life-affirming ministry. Threats to pre-born life are reduced and benefits to future generations are cultivated.
True Case Study: One client’s story
The Brandon Care Pregnancy Center implemented Birth of a Family in 2007. Christy had become their client in 2006. A sonogram revealed she was carrying twins. Jordan, their father, was addicted, unemployed, and absent. Had Christy visited BCPC before they implemented Birth of a Family, she would have been…
Statistically, Christy would have become a repeat client within two years, facing a similar crisis caused by a different “baby daddy.” Yet because she visited the center after it implemented Birth of a Family, in addition to their valuable life-affirming ministry, much more help was available to her. Here’s what was different:
They showed up for a meeting when their twins were about six weeks old. They were welcomed by trained family coaches from several local churches. While no one knew it at the time of their first visit, this was the beginning of relational discipleship that would last decades and facilitate God’s transformation of these precious lives and their future children.
While it was a rough climb out of chronic unemployability, addiction, dysfunction, and poverty, Christie and Jordan consistently participated in Birth of a Family activities. This gave many members of Christ’s Body opportunities to invest in their lives.
What were the results?
At first, it was hard to believe all this could happen, but now I’ve witnessed similar miraculous transformations hundreds of times. Connecting the Body of Christ and life-affirming ministry was the game changer.
Resources:
Sources:
1. “How Can Today’s Pro-Life Christians Build Trust in the Movement?” Kate Shellnut, Christianity Today, May 24, 2019, https://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2019/may-web-only/under-discussion-pro-life-christians-build-trust.html
2. Groundbreaking Care Net Research on Abortion and the Church, Care Net, November 23, 2015, https://www.care-net.org/churches-blog/church-abortion-survey
3. “A Pastor’s Case for the Morality of Abortion,” Emma Green, The Atlantic, May 26, 2019, https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2019/05/progressive-christians-abortion-jes-kast/590293/
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